A Lack of Self-Control

Sometimes, young men and women have to live in separate worlds because their love of themselves is too strong. If they see each other way too soon, they could lose themselves in each other and later feel sorry about the fact because they had an attachment to self-love.

I think a life for people like this should include lots of exercise, spirituality, and service to others, as well as caring professions where they love others as their job.
Self-love is good, but there really isn't that much to do in life if you don't spend it serving others.
 

Society is important. Without other people to depend on, one would keep all their problems to themselves and finally feel the weight of shame. They all need ways to talk about themselves and the social system (just like social services) makes sure that they are heard.
 

So many people look to certain establishmentarians in order to get a big enough power to have control over themselves. This is a mystery, as those people (establishmentarians) have nothing to do with your own self-control.
 

Then, why do they feel such a huge weight? I think these people are meant to do hard jobs and lift heavy weights for real and not just have easy jobs.